Archive for 'Inner Confidence'
Would Knowing You’re Going To Die In 2 Weeks Get Rid Of Your Shyness?
Posted on 04. May, 2009 by admin.
Have you ever thought about what it would be like to be told that you have 2 weeks left to live? Has the thought ever made you strangely excited? This isn’t unusual. Many shy people get this thrill. They think that if they were going to die in 2 weeks, they really wouldn’t care what other [...]
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Is Your Family Holding You Down?
Posted on 02. May, 2009 by admin.
Maybe your family is loving, caring and supportive of your shyness. Or maybe your family sucks and you hate seeing them and want to move as far away as possible from them. Either way, they may be holding you down from overcoming your shyness. Do you ever feel more shy around your family? Do you feel weird [...]
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How To Walk Past People Without Freaking Out
Posted on 01. May, 2009 by admin.
You’re taking an innocent walk in the park. It’s a beautiful day. You’re really enjoying yourself. Suddenly, you see someone coming towards you on the sidewalk. You start to freak out inside. Immediately you get this sudden urge to cross the street or turn back, but they’ve already seen you. It would look weird. It’s a guy [...]
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Do You Make These 6 Mistakes In Your Body Language?
Posted on 30. Apr, 2009 by admin.
As with anything you do, your body language should be fluid and natural. Right now you probably have some very insecure habits when it comes to body language. Most shy people do. They just don’t get it. In most situations, your body language should be used to make other people think you are a confident, sociable person. [...]
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Nobody Cares About Shy People…Here’s Why
Posted on 28. Apr, 2009 by admin.
Do you ever feel like some people you try to talk to automatically brush you off? They don’t let you talk, and don’t really listen to what you have to say? And then you see these same people giving their full attention to other people, who are seen as being popular. Doesn’t that just piss you off? [...]
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Shyness Isn’t A Choice
Posted on 27. Apr, 2009 by admin.
You see a poisonous snake coming toward you. It has a deadly look in its eyes. What do you feel? You feel fear. Intense, shaking fear that rattles through your whole body. Suddenly there’s a man standing at the opposite end of the room. He yells at you: “Don’t worry! This type of snake doesn’t bite!” Do [...]
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Why Shy People Are Afraid To Wear Cool Clothes
Posted on 26. Apr, 2009 by admin.
When an elephant is young and weak, an animal trainer ties its leg to a short wooden stake in the ground. In the beginning, the young elephant tries to escape. It struggles against the rope that holds it in place. For several days, the rope keeps rubbing the same spot on the elephant’s leg. The rope [...]
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The Popular Life Ebook Review
Posted on 25. Apr, 2009 by admin.
I’m Popular. You’re Not. That’s the headline of thePopularLife.com. The website sells an ebook called “Popular”. The guy behind the website seems like a jerk. The important thing is: does he actually know what he’s talking about? I purchased the ebook to see if it would help shy people become more social, and to find out if there [...]
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Sarcasm: A Guide For Shy People
Posted on 24. Apr, 2009 by admin.
Do you find yourself using sarcasm ALL THE TIME because you’re shy? There’s a right way to use sarcasm that makes other people think you’re funny. There’s also a wrong way that makes people see you as an antisocial loser from a mile away. What’s worse is that both ways look very similar on the surface. [...]
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Is Thinking Too Much Keeping You Shy?
Posted on 23. Apr, 2009 by admin.
You’re back in high school. The teacher you hate most has just asked you a question. Typical of her to pick the only one you don’t know the answer to. Suddenly, your mind goes blank. What do you do? You desperately try to think of something to say, and an awkward silence falls across the class. They’re [...]
