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Comment on 12 Subtle Antisocial Habits That Make You Look Insecure by Sara

Sara — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 17:58:13 +0000

“1. For most people who aren’t shy, inhibited, etc, they don’t have to think about what they’re saying. It comes out naturally because they trust their years of experience to stop them from saying anything really stupid. They may not be able to think up of very clever remarks by doing it this way, but it’s the easiest way to socialize.”

This is very true, however, this sort of behaviour requires a whole lot self-confidence. That is something I have a lack of. I’m actually pretty worried about myself, because I’ve reached the point of insecurity and lack of self-confidence, that I’m barely able to leave the “safety” of my own home. This is a great article and everything you have written about is so very true. This is all very helpful, since personally I’m finding it very difficult to break out of my “shell”, if you know what I mean.

Comment on How To Always Know What To Do Next In Any Awkward Social Situation by hotspot shield lauch

hotspot shield lauch — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 03:37:08 +0000

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Comment on How To Always Know What To Do Next In Any Awkward Social Situation by babafisa

babafisa — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 18:43:50 +0000

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Comment on How To Always Know What To Do Next In Any Awkward Social Situation by Bunker

Bunker — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 13:11:39 +0000

Very interesting and amusing subject. I read with great pleasure.

Comment on How To Always Know What To Do Next In Any Awkward Social Situation by Earrings

Earrings — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 02:15:31 +0000

i loved the article added to my favourites

Comment on How To Always Know What To Do Next In Any Awkward Social Situation by Nik

Nik — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 06:33:36 +0000

lengthy and in depth article but full of useful information

Comment on 12 Subtle Antisocial Habits That Make You Look Insecure by Electronics

Electronics — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 22:36:46 +0000

Great post, thanks for sharing this with me

I look forward to reading your future posts!

Comment on Sarcasm: A Guide For Shy People by Sean Cooper

Sean Cooper — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 17:33:28 +0000

Lisa: Thanks for the comment! Of course some outgoing people are sarcastic. (See the section of my article above titled: “Aren’t Some Outgoing People Sarcastic?”)

It’s not that everyone who uses sarcasm will have no friends and no one willing to talk to them, it’s that some people who already have no friends and poor conversation skills tend to rely too much on sarcasm to be able to say something. Using it as a crutch in the place of real social skills.

This is why I wrote a guide for shy people, not already outgoing people.

Comment on Sarcasm: A Guide For Shy People by Lisa

Lisa — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 06:15:01 +0000

Sounds like you had a bad experience with sarcasm.
I’ve seen really outgoing people use sarcasm and people find it hilarious.
Just because you’re put off by it doesn’t mean that everyone who uses it will have no friends and no one willing to talk to them.

Comment on Would Being Good-Looking Cure Your Shyness? by Conrad Dixon

Conrad Dixon — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 06:38:20 +0000

Great article,

Also when it comes to getting a girlfriend, “traditional good looks” don’t matter…

What matters is the concept of “looking attractive” which is different from purely “having good looks” as you’ve pointed out.

Basically at the end of the day, I can make any guy “good looking” in the eyes of women.

Peace,

Conrad