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How To Become Confident…Even If You’re Smart!

How To Become Confident…Even If You’re Smart!

Posted on 06. May, 2009 by admin.

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Ever notice how most doctors are confident?
If you walk into a doctor’s office and he  (or she) acts like he knows what he’s doing, you’re going to trust his diagnosis and instructions. You’re going to respect him and listen to what he says and believe it.
On the other hand, if he shakes when he’s handling [...]

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Shyness Isn’t A Choice

Shyness Isn’t A Choice

Posted on 27. Apr, 2009 by admin.

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You see a poisonous snake coming toward you. It has a deadly look in its eyes. What do you feel?
You feel fear. Intense, shaking fear that rattles through your whole body.
Suddenly there’s a man standing at the opposite end of the room. He yells at you: “Don’t worry! This type of snake doesn’t bite!” Do [...]

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Is Thinking Too Much Keeping You Shy?

Is Thinking Too Much Keeping You Shy?

Posted on 23. Apr, 2009 by admin.

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You’re back in high school. The teacher you hate most has just asked you a question. Typical of her to pick the only one you don’t know the answer to.
Suddenly, your mind goes blank.
What do you do? You desperately try to think of something to say, and an awkward silence falls across the class. They’re [...]

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12 Subtle Antisocial Habits That Make You Look Insecure

12 Subtle Antisocial Habits That Make You Look Insecure

Posted on 21. Apr, 2009 by admin.

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When I was a teenager, my  parents always insisted on taking lots of photos and home videos.
I hated seeing how I acted in those days. I was always the quietest one, barely able to control my actions and reactions. Usually I thought I was a little shy, almost normal, but seeing those videos I was [...]

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How To Talk About Stuff Nobody Cares About (And Become Popular Doing It!)

How To Talk About Stuff Nobody Cares About (And Become Popular Doing It!)

Posted on 18. Apr, 2009 by admin.

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Have you ever heard a conversation between two or more outgoing people?
It’s disgusting.
They have the most pointless conversations imaginable.
Celebrity gossip. The stupid trash movie they saw last week (that really isn’t all that funny). Comments about other boring people they know. Or nothing at all. They just talked on and on and seem to even [...]

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